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Dont get me wrong, Im 2 months ahead at any given time..(I did that intentionally) I see the point in it as well and ya'll know I want HB to have everything in the world. But WTF I see her a fraction of the time its an insult that I see my daughter every other weekend and on top of that its like I have to stroke a ****in check to do so. I dont know sometimes it pisses me off. Not the money but the fact I have a "schedule" to see my daughter. Granted I typically see her alot more frequently then that, and I do take her to gymnastic's every Tuesday but the entire principle behind it and that i have a "contract" thats legal dictating when I am suppose to see her pisses me off. I dont know maybe I just woke up on the wrong side of the bed today... alot of shits got me twisted lately. :wtflol:
 
i with you, if i could only see my daughter every other weekend it would upset me and piss me off.
 
Blame it on all the crappy dead beat dads out there. Because of them we have created a stigma that only mother's can take care of children. Don't get me wrong, my wife kicks my ass when it comes to child care, but I have seen or heard of a few dead beat mom's in my time also...
 
I agree the Dead Beat goes both ways, my ex never paid a penny towards anything ( school-clothes-sports-medicine-dr. bills) she actually went as long as 6 months at a time without making any attempt to see my son. That was rare back then(28) years ago for the father to get custody, but was the best thing that ever happened in my life.
Now that i'm remarried with 2 stepchildren it's right the opposite, dealing with a drunk dead beat dad who has no intent to contribute anything towards a better life for the children. In less than 9 months he's already gotten 3 DUI's and hopefully will spend some time in jail.
As stated earlier it's not you P, it's the men and women who don't give a damn about their own children !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Just enjoy the time you do have with them, other than that you can't change much..
 
I hate seeing so many moms who get child support and not a single penny ever makes it to the kid. The court should somehow verify that the money is being spent properly. I used to have an employee who ran out and got a new tattoo every time her check came in. He daughter never saw a penny, lived in poverty and starvation, and listened to her mom **** random black dudes all night through the thin walls of their carboard apartment. She's run out of space on her body to put tattoos so now she went out and bought DD boobs with the money. She's 4'8" and the boobs look ridiculous on her. Very sad.

J. J.
 
Im lucky in many regards ... Im just frustrated at "the system" and situation I guess. HB's all good and in the end that is what matters more then anything else :dblthumb:
 
patooyee said:
I hate seeing so many moms who get child support and not a single penny ever makes it to the kid. The court should somehow verify that the money is being spent properly. I used to have an employee who ran out and got a new tattoo every time her check came in. He daughter never saw a penny, lived in poverty and starvation, and listened to her mom **** random black dudes all night through the thin walls of their carboard apartment. She's run out of space on her body to put tattoos so now she went out and bought DD boobs with the money. She's 4'8" and the boobs look ridiculous on her. Very sad.

J. J.

Got pics ? I love tattooo'd fake ones !
 
this is a bad story for me allso
my son moved in with me so i wanted C/S from her !
she made more moneys then me so thats fair right ! no *ucking way
her lawyers had a hay day with me and i got NOTHING
4 mouth later he moved back with her, yep guess what back to court and she got her C/S
and every 4 months back to court and more money.
she had a handy cap attorney (spina bifida) so i thing the judge would swing their way
yes you can say im still a little bitter from that (my son is 26 now)
 
techtafab said:
this is a bad story for me allso
my son moved in with me so i wanted C/S from her !
she made more moneys then me so thats fair right ! no *ucking way
her lawyers had a hay day with me and i got NOTHING
4 mouth later he moved back with her, yep guess what back to court and she got her C/S
and every 4 months back to court and more money.
she had a handy cap attorney (spina bifida) so i thing the judge would swing their way
yes you can say im still a little bitter from that (my son is 26 now)
doesn't always go that way.
My cousin (older than me) has 3 kids. 2 of them my age, one of them 6 yrs younger. He paid child support for 12 yrs on the older 2. The younger came and lived with him for the last 8 yrs before his 18th. She refused to pay for 8 yrs. said she didn't have to. Owed something like $22.5K. She's a physicians assistant, her new husband and her combined for over $160K annually.
He got a judgement against her, which matters if you want to get gov't anything, taxes, wages in some cases, etc. She was in another shooling program with gov't aid for the program. They were going to yank it. He got a check for $22,650 the next week laughing1

My wife has custody of her daughter. Her ex is a douche (who wouldn't say that, but really, he lies to Kalli constantly only to dash her hopes and send her crashing down)
He hasn't paid since our son was born 10 months ago. Now her church grade school ($250 an month), all its programs and care and such (a fair amount), swim team, health care, etc are coming from us, while paying for a newborn. He also dropped med insurance on her so we paid all the other half out of pocket for her tonsilectomy, braces, checkups, etc. It's right at $7500 right now. He offered $2000 to settle it laughing1 We'll wait until his rich parents die. With a judgement, their estate can't be settled because one of the parties has a judgement :flipgotcha: FWIW he's a restaurant manager now for IHOP, and was for Red Lobster when we got together. Not exactly a drunk or tweaker
 
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