why?
sounds like hes just trying to keep up a friendship. awkward wedding with his family carring race issues isnt HIS issue... maybe those issues and his differences with them are why he wnated you in the wedding vs them? that stuffs between them.
why not answer, talk to him, let it go. doesnt sound like he ever did you really wrong or anything.
He ****ed up playing games all night what 10 years ago? didnt affect you really, and maybe hes grown up and?
based on what you wrote,not sure why you are set on getting rid of him?
I cut a friend out a few years ago... actually my best friend, who was best man in my wedding. h emoved away, we didnt talk as often, then I realized every time he called it was because he needed something from me. technical advice or whatever. always went on and on about his life and never cared to ask about mine. I got a christmas card from him this year and turns out hes got a family and a baby now too. emailed him, told him congrats, wished him well, he replied, we traded 2 or 3 emails and that'll probably be it till we cross paths again.