here comes dipers

spradlin.s · Aug 19, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss . You and your famikly are in my familys prayers .

grcthird · Aug 19, 2011

Matt, I am truly sorry for your loss. :'( This is something no family should ever have to go through. That baby girl knows how much she was loved by you. I prayed for your family and daughter many times hoping this would have a good outcome. If I can do anything for you please let me know.

COLT · Aug 19, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. We are praying for your family. If there is absolutely anything we can do for you or your family please let us know. Again, I am very sorry to hear the sad news and keep hold of your faith and your family.

COLT

southernmuddn · Aug 20, 2011

Three week ago when i posted this up on here i did not think that i would get the out pouring of surport and prayers and help that i have. For this i am forever in your debt. Words can not explain the level of thankfulness that me and my family have for everyone that said a single prayer. I have done a lot of thing in my 27 years but none make me more proud than to say that Harper Brooke Chandler is my daughter and that she has made such an impact on this world. If any one in the central alabama area want to come to her viewing it will be at New horizon funeral home in dora alabama from 6-8. Again i thank you from the bottom of my heart. Matt chandler

Do Work 93YJ · Aug 20, 2011

Matt so sorry for your loss. I too have been keeping an eye on this thread in hopes for the best and praying for you and your family. It may be hard but God had a plan for her from the start and she is in a wonderful peaceful place that we all can only hope to be a part of. Again I'm fighting back tears typing this since I feel so close to her just from this thread and can only say I'm sorry and will still be praying for you and your family. :'(

southernmuddn · Aug 23, 2011

well i did the hardest thing that i think i will ever do. on sunday i laid to rest my little girl. there r no words to explain how i feel or the size of the hole in my heart. but i know that with god i can get through this. tthank you to all that said a prayer. i thank god for all 24 days that she was here. Harper Brooke Chandler 7-25-11/ 8-18-11 with love from your dad

InDaShop · Aug 23, 2011

So very sorry for your loss. I wouldnt wish that on my worst enemy and cant phathom the pain of the ordeal, and having to go through what you and your family have had to go through.
How are you hanging in there? How is your wife doing? Does she have a good support group/family/friends??? And I'm sure the hospital counseled you on watching her for post partum, thats some crazy but legit stuff.

We're here for ya if you just need to vent.

CHASMAN9 · Aug 23, 2011

InDaShop said:
So very sorry for your loss. I wouldnt wish that on my worst enemy and cant phathom the pain of the ordeal, and having to go through what you and your family have had to go through.
How are you hanging in there? How is your wife doing? Does she have a good support group/family/friends??? And I'm sure the hospital counseled you on watching her for post partum, thats some crazy but legit stuff.

We're here for ya if you just need to vent.

X2...

You and your wife have done nothing wrong, which is a common thought that will come into play. Remember, you have a wonderful son that needs BOTH OF YOU, so let this horrible tragedy bring you closer as a family, rather than split you up because of blame. Appreciate what you have now because you will NEVER Forget what you have lost.

southernmuddn · Aug 23, 2011

the only reason that i can sit here and type out what i am feeling is because of god. My wife and i are doing better than anyone expected but again that is cause of god. We have good days then we will have a moment that will rock us to the core, be it a song or a tv show or even seeing a butterfly ( there was a tree at the hospital that had her name on it and in the A there is a butterfly). Then we pick our selfs back up and get back to life. Which is how you heal. As for a support group we have an awsome family, group of friends, and church family so a shoulder or a helping hand is never far away. Thanks matt

mrdana60 · Aug 23, 2011

this breaks my heart. so sorry for your loss. we have a baby girl due in 8 weeks. we are praying for your family.

CHASMAN9 · Aug 24, 2011

southernmuddn said:
the only reason that i can sit here and type out what i am feeling is because of god. My wife and i are doing better than anyone expected but again that is cause of god. We have good days then we will have a moment that will rock us to the core, be it a song or a tv show or even seeing a butterfly ( there was a tree at the hospital that had her name on it and in the A there is a butterfly). Then we pick our selfs back up and get back to life. Which is how you heal. As for a support group we have an awsome family, group of friends, and church family so a shoulder or a helping hand is never far away. Thanks matt

Someday, when all the tears have cleared, and you and your family are out together, you will look back and say "Harper would have loved this" and smile... :****:

You will then be at Peace with yourself Matt...