Ok....... how hard is it to just slap a Spool in it? and if I have to have everything dis-assembled, why not just throw in a set of 4.10's or 4.56's
Well, do you have all the tools and know-how to set up gears? If this is going to be a daily driver and/or driven to the trails... the words "just slap a spool in" or "just throw in a set of 4.10's or 4.56's" are both contradictions... you need to do it right if you're going to change the carrier or the gears. This is why a mini-spool might be a good idea... it's not a whole carrier replacement, it just replaces the spider gears themselves with a solid chunk.
If you replace the whole carrier with a spool, you'll need to, at the very least, pull the old bearings off your old carrier, figure out how many and their thickness and then put new shims under the new bearings, run a pattern and make sure everything looks ok. This is a quick and dirty method, and if you don't have a clamshell bearing puller or a set of "setup" bearings for the D44, you're not going to get anywhere.
Of course, the gear change requires a whole new gear setup. If you haven't done it before, I wouldn't recommend doing it first on your daily driver. You need some special tools, need to be able to identify a good pattern, and need to have a LOT of patience.
Weld it or mini spool it.