Man thats awesome see the little guy doing well. What you said about your wife's symptoms, did she happen to have h.e.l.l.p syndrome? Thats what my wife and i went through, had to deliver early at 31weeks. little girl was only 3lbs. Its a very very scary thing to go through. I gotta hand it to ya, you sound very positive through this. And that something you have to do. I'll be honest, i went through a dark deep bad negative spell when this happen to us. First was pissed off angry ready to snap at the first fkr to look at me wrong, then got pretty sad down about things. I made **** worse.. I was not handling it well.. i finally picked myself up a few weeks into all this, changed my attud, and tried to be positive through it. she spent 7wks in the NICU, and we are getting ready to celebrate her 3rd bday in few weeks. She is the best thing that has ever happen to me, she's my world! And is doing GREAT even as a preme! My point is, Stay positive, keep your head up, don't go where i went, and be there for your wife.. When things start to register with her, they start felling likes its all their fault. b/c their body wouldn't let them carry the baby long enough. reassure them thats not the case at all!!! Prayers are with ya, keep your head up, and you'll be celebrating his birthdays before you know it!!