TacomaJD
I LIKE CHEAP STUFF.....
Man the ole lady has turned into super bitch, I mean ****ing bad. We've both expressed that we are not happy the way **** is going. When its good its good, when its bad its ****ing war. She has a damn attitude all the time, bitches about everything, and I guess thinks she deserves a cookie for working long hours while completely refusing to recognize all the **** I do for her and her son on top of working and going to school. She works a lot and we have been looking for her another job with better hours, but I stay wayyyyy more busy than she does. Not that its a competition, she just always tries to use that she works all the time like I dont do **** haha. I shouldn't laugh, but it is almost comedic that she is able to overlook all the work I do at her renter house so she can pull that $500 check each month that I see none of, mow 3 of her damn yards (inherited property) and the yard at our house, I do all my own laundry, try to keep the house clean, wash all the dishes, get her son up and ready for school to get on the bus or take him to school since she is already at work each morning, I go to school myself, work full time, etc. My free time went to ****, and Im ok with it, I like staying busy. But we argue over stupid **** all the time, constantly. She cannot hold her ****ing tongue and act like a grown up, 100% attitude and its becoming too much to deal with. She is an unreasonable ****ing bitch. This **** started about a month or so before the wedding, but I just wrote it up as she just had too much on her with work, wedding planning, trying to buy new house, etc, because it definitely was a stressful time. But it aint changed and keeps getting worse.
Long as I get to keep the house, I am about ready to go sign on that dotted line and get out of this ****. Surely I could get refinanced in my name, as her name is also on current loan. We only paid minimum down payment which was $6600 and she only paid $2k of it and since then we have only made 1 house payment of which she only paid $200 of the $888 payment, which are the numbers we agreed on. Other than that, she pays the tv bill and her car payment, and I pay everything else including her cell phone bill and auto insurance. We keep our money accounts completely separate so I don't see why this couldn't be a semi painless process.
She didn't get a lot of money when her dad died like a lot of ppl think, just $13k, but got a lot of property. She got his old house that she lived in with him before we got engaged last June. It needs some remodeling (we planned on fixing up and renting it out), but is very livable, so she has somewhere to go and plenty money saved up to live on... I don't have anywhere else to go. My old house has tenants in it now. So it is imperitive I keep our new house, and I can afford it. But I've heard it may be difficult to refinance being that the loan is already in my name, like I'm close to my credit limit or something, even though the current loan would go away if I was able to refinance in my name. Idk....gotta look into it.
Not really sure why I confide in you guys regarding this, just needed to vent and possibly take away some advice from you wise fellers. ****ing pisses me off that it's came to this. So much wasted time and money. Discussion open.
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Long as I get to keep the house, I am about ready to go sign on that dotted line and get out of this ****. Surely I could get refinanced in my name, as her name is also on current loan. We only paid minimum down payment which was $6600 and she only paid $2k of it and since then we have only made 1 house payment of which she only paid $200 of the $888 payment, which are the numbers we agreed on. Other than that, she pays the tv bill and her car payment, and I pay everything else including her cell phone bill and auto insurance. We keep our money accounts completely separate so I don't see why this couldn't be a semi painless process.
She didn't get a lot of money when her dad died like a lot of ppl think, just $13k, but got a lot of property. She got his old house that she lived in with him before we got engaged last June. It needs some remodeling (we planned on fixing up and renting it out), but is very livable, so she has somewhere to go and plenty money saved up to live on... I don't have anywhere else to go. My old house has tenants in it now. So it is imperitive I keep our new house, and I can afford it. But I've heard it may be difficult to refinance being that the loan is already in my name, like I'm close to my credit limit or something, even though the current loan would go away if I was able to refinance in my name. Idk....gotta look into it.
Not really sure why I confide in you guys regarding this, just needed to vent and possibly take away some advice from you wise fellers. ****ing pisses me off that it's came to this. So much wasted time and money. Discussion open.
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